Hello,
Stupid is as stupid was - or however that goes (am hearing Tom Hanks doing Gump in my head right now...
I used to work hard on a website that taught people how to do fairly basic stuff to their computer - how to wipe and reinstall Windows, what is Defrag, and the like - if it's about something you're "not into" - you will not understand the lingo - and therefore it is very hard for what somone who is into it to make sense to you.
I have no idea what your *thing* is - but my Wife is seriously into baking AND cooking - notice the "AND" back there? To me they are one and the same - not to Cindy! THere is a way big diference to her, if you say she is into baking, or into cooking - she is into BOTH baking AND cooking - shrug???
What is the difference between a cup and 8 fluid ounces??? I have no clue!! Am I dumb??
Anyhow - to the point.
This is simply *my* thinking here? If you once per day, pick an on-ramp, or a road with a higher speed limit, and once per day (or 15 times in one day), you turn a corner onto that ramp (am painting a picture here), and you push on the gas pedal bout 1/3 to halfway down, and keep the pedal in the SAME POSITION until you get to 65 miles per hour on the speedo, and then ease off the gas pedal til you are cruising, you will have done what is being suggested.
When you did the right turn onto the ramp, you are generally driving rather slow - 10-15 miles per hour, you then push dowh on the gas pedal with your right foot bout 1/3 to halfway, will make the engine roar, and will make you drop into first gear, and since you will hold your foot in the same place on the pedal, you will go "up through the gears" *shifting from first, into second, and then at about 40 MPH (miles per hour) the car will *shift from second gear, into thirs gear, and then around 65 MPH (if you did not push too hard on the gas pedal) it will *shift* from third gear into fourth gear.
By doing this every day for a couple of weeks (planning to do this, picking a good piece of road) - no traffic, no interruptions, so you can hold the gas pedal in the same place from 10MPH to 60 or 70MPH you will actually teach your car how to shift.
OR - you can do the same thing 15-20 times over and over and over in one day if you are in a hurry. (to change how your cars acts)
About a automatic transmission. They made different kinds, with different gear counts. I have an automatic with 4 forward gears, and one reverse gear. (automatic means stick it in "D" and go, or in "R" and go backwards - 2 pedals instead of three)
A lower gear gos slower, and is for going slower. Your husband is correct, First gear is usually just to get the car going. Some basic thoughts:
The lighter you push down on the gas pedal, the sooner the car shifts out of one gear, and *up* into the next - example...
dead stop, you are in "D" for drive with brakes on. You step down on the gas pedal (crack the throttle, give it some gas, etc) lightly, say 10% of the pedal travel (distance from it just not being touched, to 'floored' where you push the gas pedal to the floor - called "Wide Open Throttle" or WOT) ...anyhow, you are at a stop, and you take off like you normally would, just a little bit on the gas - you are in first gear, bout 10MPH the car will leave first gear, and go into second gear, at about 25MPH, the car will leave second gear, and go inot third gear, at about 30-35MPH the car will leave third gear and go into fourth gear.
Now - same thing, but you are in a hurry to go! So, you take your foot off the brake, and push the gas pedal to the floor! And you hold it there! (no traffic, no cops, and you are in a big hurry!
So you floor the gas pedal to the floor - the car still takes off in first gear, but it goes to bout 30MPH, before it leaves first gear, and goes into second gear, and then it stays in second gear til about 45-50MPH (still at WOT, full throttle, you right foot hard on the pedal all the way to the floor) at 45-50MPH the car leaves second gear and *shifts* into Third gear - at this point, with your foot on the floor, the car may not leave third gear (or shift) until around 90MPH or so, BUT!!! If at 70MPH you lift your right foot off the gas to let the pedal come up to the halway point, the car will right away shift, or leave third gear and go into fourth gear!
Light the touch on the gas pedal, the sooner the car will shift, or change gears from lower to higher! An automatic *could* be in fourth gear at 20MPH (very light pressure on the gas pedal), or may not shift up into fourth gear until 60-80MPH (very heavy pressure on the gas pedal).
Rules:
Light pressure = early shifting 1st to 2nd, 2nd to 3rd, and 3rd to 4th
Heavy pressure = (on the gas pedal, throttle,etc) later shifting (not time so much, but miles-per-hour) 1st to 2nd, 2nd to 3rd, and 3rd to 4th
the heavier the pressure on the gas pedal, the lounder the engine sounds
Every car has a different *voice* - deeper, or higher pitched, louder, or quieter
When I am mad I get louder right?
Your car has a louder voice when it is in a hurry
Your car has a softer voice when it is just cruising along nice and easy (like when the cruise control is turned on)
It is perfectly normal for different cars to have different sounding voices.
If you are driving steady at 50MPH, and you want to pass a car in front of you on a two lane road, you will stab the gas pedal to the floor right? Because you were driving steady at 50MPH you would be in the highest possible gear (this case 4th gear) so that your car would be whispering along very softly, when you floored the gas pedal, your car does two things, it "down-shifts to 2nd gear" - just by pushing the gas pedal to the floor it will shift from 4th down to 2nd gear - and your car will start yelling (get much louder) and you will speed up very fast to about 70MPH and as you pass the car in front of you and ease your foot off the gas pedal your car will "upshift" into third gear, and then change from 3rd gear to fourth gear and your car will stop yelling and get quieter again - how's that?
When you are being gentle on your car, her voice is calm and quiet, when you are harder on your car, and telling her to hurry (by pushing harder on the gas peder) she starts talking back at you and gets louder until you ease up on the gas pedel and she stops barking at you and starts humming...
Anyhow - I hope my blathering has helped you a bit? If one piece did not, perhaps another piece did?
An 'adaptive' transmission is *supposed to learn how you like to drive, and it is supposed to learn when to shift the different gears based on how you like to drive - if you baby the car and drive real easy all the time, the car will shift very early and try to keep it's voice very quiet all the time - so you would have to really mash the gas to the floor to get out of someone's way!
If you start to *train* your car that sometimes you like it to yell - then it will learn that yelling is OK, and it will be more willing to learn to yell without you having to push so hard on the gas pedal!
As the other car was a loaner, and many people drove it, and sadly, since it wasn't their car, most did not car how they treated it, so that loaner car learned to yell as soon as anyone barely pushed on the gas pedal - makes sense?
If you want to see how I wrote about computers, feel free to go HERE and look around. I do not work on the site anymore - so I am not trying to advertize anything - just showing a sample of how to write for different people.
I hope this helps you (HTH)
Peter