I've only had my car a year. Dealership will not help. On cold starts it does not start. The override where you hold the button for 30 seconds does not work anymore. I do hear the relay and fuel pump I think kicking in. All lights are normal and at full power. I've checked fuses and relays and break sensors and spark plugs but nothing is working. My son (he's an airplane mechanic and uses some knowledge that carries over to cars) ruled out the alternator. I did try to the key fob trick and it work once but with it being intermittent cold start it's difficult to say if it's just a low battery in the key fob. The key fob battery was replaced less than a year ago. My son thinks it's the starter. My husband and I both went through each fuse and nothing.