QUOTE (pparker @ Nov 5 2009, 12:42 PM)

The road force balance was done the third time I took it back and every time they balanced the tires they told me the weights were in the wrong place!!
This is exactly what I mean regarding the road force balance. My experience with it is the same. Don't waste your time on it. You balance the tires, go for a 5 minutes drive and the tires are off again.
Regarding the vibration: If the car was vibration free before the tire rotation my guess is - it wasn't because of the tires. What probably happened was:
1. They rotated your tires and torqued the wheels with impact wrench. So basically they overtightened the lug nuts and that in turn probably warped your brake rotors. Possibly damaged the wheel bearings.
2. Then you came back and they tried to balance your tires several times, so at this point the balance is probably off, unless someone actually did a good job which is unlikely.
Ask me how do I know (IMG:
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At the end you are in a pretty bad position. Your brakes are probably warped, and your tire balance is probably off. Also, you might have a bad wheel bearing or two. So it won't be easy to fix, because most mechanics don't know or don't care what they're doing and it's not a single item to fix.
So I'm sorry, but looks like it'll cost you.
What you should probably do is to start from the beginning. Replace or resurface the rotors. Then take the car to a good tire shop, and try to rebalance the tires. It might take several attempts to find a place that has a good aligned machine and people who have enough patience. Just do a regular high speed balance. If they have several machines - ask them to check it on additional balancer as well. Make sure your tires are at 32psi and warm right before you balance. Make sure they hand-torque the wheels, otherwise it'll screw the new brakes as well.
If all this doesn't help you might want to look into wheel bearings and stuff, but that'll become more complicated, because now you are not sure about the tire balance.
No guarantee, but unfortunately I went through the same thing with my previous car, and very close with the current car. This is why I don't let anybody touch the wheels or tires on it, unless I absolutely have to. And I don't rotate tires because of the same reason.