QUOTE (montego @ Oct 12 2009, 11:33 AM)

you can of course mix your water and anti-freeze before you add the mixture to the radiator (do not use more than 45% anti-freeze)
All anti-freeze is standard and will mix with any old solution except the 'red' anti-freeze. if your car has the red already in the system then you must use red to top it up and it will not mix with other types
MMM, I dunno about the 45% limit unless he lives in a warm climate, like the South or the Southeast where it rarely drops below -10 degF. In Alabama I have seen the temp get below zero Fahrenheit only two or three times, so the 45% mix would be fine for us, but not if I traveled north with it in m car, where I might see -15 degF overnight. The 50/50 mix is recommended for being prepared for any travel around the CONUS.
If he lives in New Hampshire, especially upstate (like Mt Washington, which is REALLY upstate!), he might want to make it 50% or 55%. The extra freeze protection may be needed there. If I remember the ratio table, ethylene glycol in a 50/50 mix will freeze at -34 deg F. I'm not sure about 55/45, but its freezing point is probably around -38 to -40 degF. A 55% mix may make the engine run a little warm since ethylene glycol doesn't conduct heat like pure water, so that change in the ratio shouldn't make a lot of difference, but I wouldn't go over 60% antifreeze.
Changing oil to 5W-20 for winter use might be a good idea, though. Here in the "Sunny South" I run 5W-30 Mobil 1 year round and have no problems.